Successful open relating

3 hour workshop

The 6 grounds principals of open relating

In an interactive and exploratory matter we will look at what is needed for successful open relating. We will look at what relating in this manner means, and what ingredients are needed to make it a safe connection. Open relating does give a new context to what safety, connection and communication can look like. In the workshop we will start practising how to make that step towards successful open relating

Most of us grew up with a certain view on how you should relate to each other. Or how you shouldn’t. Maybe your parents or role models were a happy monogamous couple. Maybe there was a difficult divorce. Maybe there was cheating or lying or emotional distance. Whatever your views of romantic relationships are, it shapes what you want for yourself. A very important opportunity with open relating is that you get to make your own relationship rules together with your partner and partners. Since you are already outside the norm, which is monogamy, it’s time to think more freely. And with more freedom, comes responsibility. How can I create new agreements, patterns and rules that fit me?

In this workshop we will give you the ground principals to work from with yourself and your partner(s).

“We are not ment to be alone, so you have the responsibility to understand what kind of relationship works best for you and your loved ones”
Arthur

Subjects

Emotional responsibility

Behavioural responsibility

Together = better than alone

Values, rules & agreements

Changing relationships

Communication

What is open relating

Open relating is the name for all relationship forms that don’t fit the monogamy standard. It can be polyamory, open relationship or other forms. If you are considering this form of relating and you have questions about it, or you already experimented with new relationship forms but found it challenging, then this workshop is for you.

Goals

Transform Old ‘golden’ standard to create your own personalised intimate relationships

Being stuck to knowing where to start

Fear of opening up your relationship to understanding how to start exploring that

Having bad experiences to knowing how to create good ones

Knowing when your relationship is ready to open to other people

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This workshop is for singles, couples, one part of a relationship and moresomes

This is for

This is for you when you think about opening up your relationship but you don’t know how. In this workshop we will give you important ground principals for successful open relating. We will start discovering in exercises what open relating means for you and what you’ll need to make it successful.

When you had bad experiences in opening up your relationship or being in an open relationship. In this workshop you will learn how it can work for you, and what is needed for that. We will give you the tools to start exploring for yourself and your partner’s how your relationship could look like.

When you want more support in successful open relating. The amount of positive models, successful open relationships and good examples are limited. We got you. This workshop is aimed to support you in your open relationships or process to get there.

Am I gonna

Be successful in open relating? Every relationship is different, and together you have to find out what works for everyone. There is absolutely not 1 golden model in any context. Every relationship will be different and will change over time. We will present you the tools and processes to create the relationships that will work for you, open or not.

Annet de Boer
Open relating relaxes and challenges me in equal measure. It teaches me about love, attachment, safety and control.

Who else participates

The group is very divers in sexuality, gender and experiences. If you had no, some or a lot of experience but need support in your process this workshop will help you on your way.

The main group is between 20 and 50 with a few above 50 years old.

It doesn’t matter what kind of study, work or if you have done more workshops like this. In a safe, playful and practical matter we will have a lot of fun and teach you new things.

Are you little afraid..

Do you think open relating is not something for you? Great, this workshop is made for you. We will never say that open relating, or any other relationship form is for everyone. But we will support you in your exploration what will work for you.

You don’t have a partner, date or other connection to take along? You don’t need to. The workshop is aimed at you to support you in your relationships. If you do bring a partner great, you will have a head start. If not you will known much better what to look for and be well prepared for your next or absent partner.