Start with Kink and is it something for me

3 hour workshop

Get to know what flavours of kink exist and get an idea how to experiment with that in your own life. To get a more free, authentic, and pleasurable sex live.

This workshop is for you if you can connect to your own body and desires but want to know more about what you can do with that. We will start discovering in a playful and relaxed way so you can discover from your own safety what it means to you.

During the workshop you can share with others in a safe space and ask questions. You can also benefit from the workshop if you don’t want to share. You then learn from the other participants, Arthur and Annet and the exercises.

Kink can have a dark, scary or weird meaning in popular media but is an enormous playfield you can enjoy in the way that you want. You can have enormous fun with it, laugh while doing it, make it exciting or even dark but that is all up to you.

The workshop will give you insight in new flavours you can taste and we will experiment with a few of those in playful, relaxed exercises with all our clothes still on.

“Kink in the sexual realm just explains everything that we as a society not deem ‘normal’ sex, whatever that might look like”
Arthur

Subjects

Understanding your own desires. Discover how they originate and why you can find new ones

Kink is only fun when you are in a consensual connection to yourself and the people you are experiencing it with. We will give some guidelines and exercises on how you make and keep this connection and get back on track when there is misunderstanding.

Kink & fetishes. From shame to embracing all your desires

What kind of different flavours exist (hint: a lot, you can have endless fun with them)

Experimenting. Learn how in a safe and playful way to try out new flavours.

Goals

From fear to understanding

From unknowing to direction in your own curiosity

From bad experiences to safe & playful experimenting

What is Kink

Having a kink means that something is giving you sexual energy that is outside what society finds mainstream. In reality that means that most people already at least have played around with kink. The porn industry and popular media often show kink as a dark & scary world. Kink is so much more and we will show you what.

Want to know more about this workshop?

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Contact me

This workshop is for singles, couples, one part of a relationship and moresomes

This is for

This workshop can be for you if you are curious what else is out there in the sexual realm. We all have our own experiences and what we learn from our surroundings. In this workshop we are gonna open up your horizon so you can choose new directions.

If you have heard of kink, maybe have watched some kinky porn or have fantasies about it but don’t know how to connect it to your own sexuality. In the workshop you will get much more insight how desires come to life and what to do with them. We will give you the freedom to start exploring with safety, connection and integrity.

If you or your partner has a kink and you don’t know how to connect to that. Good news: you don’t have to have the same exact kinks or fetishes to enjoy them both. With the exercises we will give you tools to start enjoying them together.

You had a kink experience but not a really good one. Bad experiences can happen even with good intentions. We will give you a path how to rewrite those bad experiences and starting making your own positive ones.

Am I gonna enjoy all kink and fetishes?

Part of being human is having desires, and most humans have sexual desires. Having sexual desires, deemed normal by society or kinky, is therefor also completely natural.

In the workshop we will open up your own sexual possibilities and teach how you can safely and consciously experiment with those. You will find ways to have endless fun with your own desires now and in the future.

Annet de Boer
I want to explore everything that I am and I can be. In my life in general, so also in my sex life. Kink is one of het ways to do that. And it’s funny. The mindfucks and the contradictions that this kind of play brings forward. We’re all so weird. In the best way.

Who else participates

The group is often divers in sexuality, gender and experience. The main group is between 20 and 50 with a few above 50 years old.

It doesn’t matter what kind of study, work or if you have done more workshops like this. In a safe, playful and practical matter we will have a lot of fun and teach you new things.

Are you little afraid..

Do you expect this workshop is not for you because of how you feel about kink? Than this workshop is especially for you! There will be more participants like you with shared experiences and emotions. All are welcome.

You don’t have a partner to take along? You don’t need your own partner or date to participate in this workshop. All exercises are with all clothes on and you don’t have to connect with your sexual energy to someone else. The exercises will be playful, insightful and safe to do and we will help you with that.

Arthur Pop
Finding out what kinks there are in the world is like finding out new flavours and dishes. You might still like the old one but you also might find amazing new dishes.