Loved one(s)

“We have full freedom and responsibility to choose how we intimately relate to our loved one(s)”

Arthur

The way we intimately relate to our loved one—or loved ones—is deeply personal. What that looks like is something we create together, shaped by mutual understanding, desires, and agreements. But one thing is certain: we all need intimate relationships in our lives.

As humans, we are wired for connection. Our relationships provide us with security, joy, belonging, and care. Yet, society and media often present a narrow view of what these relationships should be—whether through traditional family structures, romanticized fairy tales, or cultural expectations. The role models we grow up with, from our parents to Disney stories, shape our early understanding of love and intimacy.

But the beauty of relationships is that we have the freedom to design them in ways that truly align with who we are. You get to choose how you intimately connect with others. With open communication and consent, there are no limits to how love, partnership, and intimacy can be expressed.

For some, the classic, monogamous “happily ever after” feels right—and that’s wonderful. But for many, traditional relationship models may not reflect their values, desires, or the unique connections they share with their partner or partners.

Whatever intimacy looks like for you, it deserves to be explored and nurtured in a way that feels authentic, fulfilling, and true to your heart.

You

Are you interested in how your relationships can work for you? Do you want to learn together what kind of relationship  will work for everyone?

Do you want to learn what it is to have an open relationship, what it can bring you and what will change for you and your partner(s)?

Have you had a monogamous relationship and does one of you want to open the relationship, or the other way around? Do you find open relating difficult and complex?

Do you and your partner have different expectations and needs in your relationship and do you want to find out how you can bridge that gap?

Do you feel insecure and jealous while even thinking of sharing your partner? Does it scare you what it will do to your sense of security and safety?

And do you want to overcome old negative experiences so you can decide in the moment what is good for you?

Goals

  • To create healthy intim relationship(s) with your partner(s)
  • Opening up your previous closed relationship
  • To understand what you need and expect in relationships
  • Knowing what kind of open relationship will work for you and your partner(s)
  • Understanding what past experiences make you feel the way you do in relationships
  • Healing past trauma that get’s triggered here and now
  • Opening up to your partner(s) about your needs
  • Learning how to communicate in an open relationship
  • Create your own healthy & safe set of rules, agreements and intentions for your relationships

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