About me

I want you to be free in how you relate to your loved ones, to be free in your own sexuality and to be free in how you connect to your body, needs and desires. 

Do you wish you could deeply connect to yourself, your body, mind, emotions and whatever spirituality means for you? Would you like to be able to create relationships build on deep connections, clear communication and freedom to be who you are? And do you want to completely embrace your sexuality, understand what your desires are and find a safe and healthy place for them in your life?

I do coaching, workshops and retreats about kink, tantra and open relating and anything that connects with that. Three subjects very close to my heart and part of my own life. And all three subjects experiencing great misunderstanding, loads of fear and a bad reputation around the world. 

My intention will be to work with these subjects with  integrity, honesty and elegance. Our relationship to ourselves, our sex life and to others deserve nothing else.

My background

I have been a coach for the better part of 3 decades now. At a young age I coached sport teams, and in my professional life I worked as a coach / trainer at universities, international companies and for myself. In all those roles I had the intention to connect people to what they really want and dare to go there.

In a bullied youth I didn’t know how to connect to my surroundings so well, so I focussed on myself. My solution was that when I understood my own feelings, emotions and wishes I could reach out and connected to others.

. In the mean time I’ve been deepening those skills anyway I can. As a NLP Master I use countless behaviour studies, neuro science and my own extensive coaching experience in helping others.

At the moment I have one polyamorous relationship with Annet, and recurring dates with multiple genders. I am part of the queer community in Amsterdam.

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