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Welcome my friends, I’m Arthur
Connection is everything, and I’m here to connect you to your true self including all your beautiful desires and relationships.
I help men, women and non-binary in all LGTB+ flavours to be their authentic self and relate to their partners the way you want. You will feel what you want, dare to admit that to yourself & others and act upon it. When you embrace all your desires you will find a healthy, loving & connected place in your life for them.
I already accept you as you are with open arms, love and acceptance. Now you.
I’ve been working for 20+ years as a coach and with intimate subjects like kink, tantra and relationships for 10 years. I work in both English en in het Nederlands.
As a behaviour expert with a background in NLP and neuroscience I intend to create real impact in your life and help you to embrace your sexuality & your relationships in all forms.
How do I support you
Coaching
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Workshops
Below you’ll find the upcoming workshops
Retreats
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Next workshops
Sunday May 26
1300h-1600h
Start with Tantra
3 hour workshop with Arthur & Annet
How to create deeper intimate connections to yourself and others. For more fun, pleasure and embodiment in your (sex) life and relationships.
Sunday June 9
1300h-1600h
What is Kink
3 hour workshop with Arthur & Annet
Get to know what flavours of kink exist and get an idea how to experiment with that in your own life. To get a more free, authentic, and pleasurable sex live.
Thursday Sep 12
1830h-2130h
Successful open relating
3 hour workshop with Arthur & Annet
The 6 grounds principals of open relating
Coaching
During coaching with me you’ll go on a transformational journey where you connect better to yourself, your desires, wishes and dreams. My intention is to support you to be the most authentic, confident and congruent version of yourself in relation to your loved ones.
Next retreat: October 11th till 13th 2024:
Retreat for couples: find freedom in your desires
Learn together how to find a healthy place for your desires, kink or fetish in your sex life
Every person in a relationship brings their own desires, their own needs, fantasies and their own sexual profile. Plus all the experiences you gathered so far. Sometimes those fit brilliant together, sometimes they don’t. But you can have equal fun with both scenarios luckily.
In a relationship you have the opportunity for an endless adventures full of experiences that will fulfil you both in multiple ways. To be able to do so you need to first understand your own desires, how to connect to them and express them to your partner.
During this retreat you will experience what it is to be free in your desires, what you like about your desires and what’s possible in consensual, deeply connected fun.
The values that matter to me
Everything is welcome
All, and I mean ALL your desires, dreams, wishes and fears are welcome!
Connection = everything
You need to connect to yourself and your own desires, needs and wishes before you can really connect to others.
Sex = healthy
Almost everybody needs sex to be healthy, fulfilled and complete. Finding a healthy place for them in your life make you YOU!
Radical Authenticity
Authenticity in connection with your surrounding is the most beautiful thing in the world. I will celebrate whatever that look likes for you
Masculinity vs femininity
Polarity done right creates opportunities, energy, love, play and so much enjoyment. Let’s do it in a healthy way.
Want to know more about how I work?
What I have done so far
3000
Coached more than 3000 people
15000
Provide more than 15000 hours of training
30
Worked in more than 30 countries on 3 continents
Let’s meet
I want to talk about how I can support you, and the first 30 minutes are on me